The hardest thing to learn in life is which bridge to cross and which to burn ~Bertrand Russell.
A couple of weeks ago I hurt someone unknowingly and soon realized my fault and apologized but still the gulit is killing me. How come the situation sliped from my hands. It was for sure my duty to handle things with great care.
How much time will it take to calm my soul?
I am travelling these days and would love to feel sunshine which for a reason is not on the menu for a while 🙂
Have a good weekend friends!
Hey Rupali. Don’t beat yourself for something of the past. You can’t change it anymore. Don’t drown in the guilt as that is not going to change anything. Be happy. Just forgive yourself. That’s more than enough.
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Thank you so much shambhavi for your support.
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You’re welcome dear🙂😊
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And you are kind.
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😊 glad to have come across you and your abode!
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I hate the feeling of a mistake you can’t easily or immediately fix.
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Beautiful quote! I wish you could cross the bridge soon.
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Thank you Megala.
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Maybe you won’t have to burn the bridge. Leave it alone for a while. You might be able to cross it soon. Just give it time.
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Thank you so much for your kind words. It helps me a lot.
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Wonderful quotation. Always tough to hurt someone’s feelings, especially when it’s intentionally. You’ve apologized. You can do no more. I think Jessica has the right idea.
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Thanks Laurie. I am trying trying my best to tackle the situation.
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Good luck!
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I meant “unintentionally.” Sigh.
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🙂 I know.
Thanks for supporting me.
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My pleasure. I suspect most, if not all, of us, have been in the situation you describe.
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Aw. 😦 Please don’t hang onto that guilt! It does no good! Let it go! Release it! Forgive yourself!
Maybe the sun isn’t shining outdoors, but please let it shine in your heart! 🙂 You have such a beautiful, caring heart! 🙂
(((HUGS))) and ❤
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Thank you so much for such soothing words Carolyn.
I am trying my best.
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I know it’s difficult. All we can do is try.
I was talking to a friend about guilt last night. It’s a powerful, painful emotion. 😦
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And specially when beloved sister is involved 😦
Thank you for everything.
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You too, and great quote.
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Thank you Paul.
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My pleasure Rupali
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You’ve taken the hardest and most important step – the apology. 😊
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Thanks for your kind words Irene.
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yes the apology is the hardest, you’ve owned your error … now forgive yourself and move on … guilt is such a waste of energy and anyone who know you knows that you don’t have a mean bone in your body … bet they’ve already moved on ❤
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I hope so.
Thanks a lot Kate.
With all the positive support from fellow bloggers the weather forecast changed unexpectedly. Sun is shining and though there are snow flakes, we had a nice walk.
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yea and sounds like you are moving on, well done Rupali ❤
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Had hard night yesterday. Ottherwise going well.
Thank you.
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glad to hear it … hugs!
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A big hug!
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To feel the guilt is an apology in itself.Just let it go🤗
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In my experience feeling guilty was quite easy but letting go is difficult.
Thanks for supportive words.
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🤗🤗🤗
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